Since Kristen asked:
We "met" this morning when my supervisor basically started addressing me without letting the other ladies know what was going on. She started by asking how I could've handled it better, and I honestly didn't know. I never went through training for this crap. I said that I'd been treated badly by the lady every time she came in, and my supervisor was still trying to point out my mistakes (while admitting that she hadn't even listened to the entire conversation - yeah, that makes sense!). So finally, the other two caught on to what we were talking about and suggested ways to approach evil students, and we all agreed to back each other up when a "situation" arises, and if anyone feels incredibly uncomfortable, they can pass the situation on to someone else and leave the room to calm down. We also want to document these kinds of occurrences, so I'll probably adapt my summary I posted here for a more G-rated audience and hand it in.
Overall, it was okay, but in the next week or so, I still want to meet with both supervisors to discuss other issues that have left me hating the thought of going to work lately. I did tell you all that I am not supposed to play WebBoggle at my computer even during breaks, didn't I? Or that when a supervisor (who is unobservant and can't see that you've got TEN MILLION things to do) asks me to do a frivolous errand, I should always find a way to get it done (this was passed to me as "advice from an older working lady to a younger working lady" when for the first time ever working here, I said, "I don't think I have enough time"). Or that it's okay for everyone to joke around, but whenever my supervisor (the biggest joker) is suddenly in a sensitive mood and wants to be treated as a supervisor, it's suddenly disrespectful???
Posted by wendytime at May 24, 2004 12:53 PM | TrackBackJust out of curiosity, are there any men in this office? It sounds like it's a bunch of women who don't have a professional attitude and act like they're at church or home or something, rather than at work.
Posted by: Jonathan on May 24, 2004 01:51 PMYes. That's exactly the problem that I see in it. Almost all women, and this particular one lacks professionalism. I've never worked somewhere quite like this.
Posted by: jeri on May 24, 2004 01:58 PMWow, that sounds extremely frustrating! Do you think that your supervisor will be open to discussion once things are officially in writing?
Posted by: Kristen on May 24, 2004 10:18 PM